Thursday, October 25

An incident which happened yest..

a friend (she)came over to talk to me while i was with another friend (he)...my friend (he) made a statement and she made this comment to me, " Hey, your friend ALSO very gay leh"...what really caught my attention was the word ALSO...a simple word yet can infer so much meaning in the sentence...and when i pointed out the usage of this word, she realized it and apologized for letting her mouth loose...hmm..apparently she didn't apologize by explaining its meant to be a joke, so she did meant it i guess...

somehow although its not the first time i've heard such comments (i've heard worst) but this is the first time it sort of incurred much thoughts in my heart..and these thoughts of wondering why others will pass such comments did stay for quite a while in my mind...

but eventually i stick by what i believe it...as long as we are secure in who we are, why be bothered by unconstructive comments made by others? esp those which have tendency to hurt you..very often, we are bombarded with thoughts and comments made by the people ard us and its always so easy to be influenced by these comments and before we know it, our mood is dependent on our surroundings...isn't it rather sad that we have to be subjected to the comments of this world and stay vulnerable to attacks of the words?

we must always rmb to stay secure in who we are, our identity in Christ and hold on to the truth which we place as the foundation of our lives..a foundation which is always stable and infallible...thank God for building our lives upon Him, for in Him, we find our securities in life...

i'm growing and maturing in this area of my life...may i continue to seek for the security of my life in Him...

jel; 11:57 pm