Sunday, September 17


its kind of weird..there's a lot of thoughts going through my mind now and i was just wondering which ones to blog down now....there's been quite a lot of happenings ard me for the past few days and week and i really treasure every single opportunity which was given to me....

hmm...maybe i'll just share some thoughts...sometimes u may think you know a friend but i really feel a friendship will only grow when friends share some things on a personal level, something deeper in the heart...it could be feelings over certain issues which are of concern to them...of course, we all know that but for the sharing to happen, it takes certain trust and understanding for both parties...and i feel that one's attitude and how one presents himself in front of your friends really matters....the sincerity needs to come across to allow others to really witness it...

sometimes, we may be too carried off with the jokes and fun that friends have to actually display the other side of ourselves and we end up missing out on the emotional needs...there's no denying that everyone has a emotional part of them, even guys...everyone has their share of emotions which may not be shown usually to others...thats why friendship can really develop when we can relate to the emotions of our friends...we see a different side of our friends and if you're seriously care for your friends, the minimum we can do is to provide a listening ear for them when they share with you...of course, we can definitely do more than the minimum...go the extra mile to show your care and pray for them for their needs...

so be thankful the next time a friend shares with you anything private....it is a sign of trust in you and the start of a developing friendship...use the opportunity to show you do care abt his/her life and you do want to help in any possible ways...

jel; 9:19 am